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Darling / or
in the mail earlier we talked about basic concepts of how the mind works. For a concise summary we can say that the mind "sees" only the fact that "can" see (due to limitations of the sense organs and his way of thinking) but "convinced" that what he has seen, heard or felt is the only possible reality, that is true only what he saw (or believed to see).
Mystics ancients used to say all the time: the mind creates illusions and the only truth lies beyond words, beyond the intellect. Only there can we see the true nature of things. And we, who are anything but mystical significance that may have to know these things? Knowing the workings of the mind can protect us from a lot of suffering!
Every day in my work, but also outside of work, I see people's minds work and I can assure you that it is good to note how much suffering it produces to themselves and to others. In other words we can say that the more we are attached to the mind and the more we live in suffering. In this case the attachment is created by lack of knowledge of mental processes.
Let us now drop everything in the reality of everyday life. Let's take an example for the behavior of another person. Many times I have heard phrases like: "My husband loves me, loves me not." "What's wrong?" I ask I. "Do not caress me never, never lets me cuddle." It would seem a common phrase, acceptable in its content. In fact, it contains distorted concepts.
The most obvious is that a conviction has become "absolutely true" that he did not pat and that this should not automatically say that he loves. Many times I have seen in the fact the falsity of this conviction and I found that often there are two different ways of understanding the relationship.
She is perhaps more "natural", more sensitive to physical contact, to touch, pampering. He is instead, for example, more "visual", enjoys more the vision of its physical beauty, the perfection of his features, or see her in an outfit of some kind. Maybe, instead, is a type more rational, more accustomed to things that are practical, no frills. Two different natures, if they do not consider these aspects are more likely to "clash" rather than "meet".
know what is the objection that I shall be made after this explanation? "If he really loved me, knowing that I do like cuddling, would do me." "But it's not his nature" answer "It does not occur spontaneously. Become a stretch for him, and then basically does not do. "
Now, I would focus your attention on the conviction of departure: "My husband does not love me because I'm not cuddling." Meanwhile, we note that she "sees" the facts from a perspective of "partial", ie through the filter of his way of thinking and experiencing the world and, as we said before, is convinced that his way of thinking is absolutely true and valid for all.
In the second instance, when the mind of a person installs a conviction of this type will tend to "react" with the behavior of a person dissatisfied and disappointed, by engaging in conduct of redress, of revenge, of dislike, anger, etc. . toward her husband. This, in turn, seeing the reactions of his wife begins to think she does not like anymore, that is not the most pleasing, which is no longer so popular. etc.. It 's very clear that in such a context, rather than unite, the two tend to leave more and more, is not it?
understand now what it means that your mind creates your reality? And it all started from a misinterpreted believed true. It 's a bit devilish this, but I assure you it is very very real examples and dozens more could be done. :-) ...) I think I hear your voice that says, "but then what should be done in the case in this example?" It would become too long to explanations in a newsletter.
The concepts that I expressed here are the contents of my course of mental ecology that sometimes I wish for my customers. They are also one of the issues addressed in the treatment of energy integration, where you identify such limiting beliefs and other aspects of the person and by stimulating energy points are going to rebalance the mental processes that lead to resolving the issue.
In the next newsletter will talk about another aspect of how the mind creates reality. A hug
Andrea
aparim10@yahoo.it
PS: you carry a thought of the great Indian master
Swami Vivekananda: "It 's our mindset that makes the world what it is for us. Our thought make things beautiful, our thoughts make things ugly.
The whole world is in our own minds. " He was born in 1863. Like other great spiritual teachers, he had understood everything! ! ! Now it's up to us! :-)) __________________________________________________
***** True stories
In this section, each newsletter to tell a real case that happened
which resolved completely with the use of energy integration.
Here is the story of this issue:
I tell you this story to tell you what, sometimes it is wrong or inappropriate to resolve the painful symptoms of a person who wants nothing more than heal quickly to return to do everything he did before, without addressing the underlying causes.
John worked for many years as a laborer in a small company and was much appreciated by the owners for his hard work. He was always very diligent in performing his duties and did not miss the opportunity to do all the overtime that was required. Sometimes they even took the job of even those renovations of the wards that the company decided to renew every so often. What they say was a hard worker. I saw him
for the first time several years ago and asked me to help him solve his lumbar back pain that seemed to be born from nothing. Then I made a couple of sessions, Ayurvedic massage and everything was for the best, with its extreme happiness. I saw him again after about two years for the same problem and the situation began to intrigue me, because, according to him, the pain seemed to appear without reason. Ayurvedic treatments and even redid the pain disappeared, and John felt really good.
After another year and a half, I called for the same problem and this time it was accompanied by his wife. After I was made aware that the clinical hours was a cartilage that was moving towards right and could eventually compress the nerves, it was during the massage that she explained to me that John is "killing business". He promptly denied this, saying that his wife always exaggerated and that only then did his duty as a laborer.
I realized that something was not clear and then asked his wife not to come the next time, so you can conduct a good investigation without interference. While practicing the massage I gave him a bell'interrogatorio clarifier and saw that his wife was quite right, or perhaps had been too cautious. I changed strategy and started practicing energy integration.
was immediately told me that John to what we take to heart any kind of responsibility and what was normal for him and so could not see a different way of behaving. He wondered much and there was almost disappointed when I told him that his devotion to work and take all the responsibility was exaggerated behavior. However, we continued to work with energy integration and gradually began to emerge all of these issues.
He was convinced that deep to be good, to be accepted and loved, and had to get busy beyond all limits. He inherited his business and the teachings of his parents, who had had great difficulty during the last war and they were literally cleaved back to work to survive. John had been involved as a child, after school hours in addition to the tasks he always gave more than a hand to his parents in carrying out various works necessary for the good of the family.
With energy integration, John was able to let go of these beliefs and behavior patterns in a short time and was able to indulge in a little 'rest and a lot more' to less extraordinary, with the greatest happiness of his wife, finally managed to have them at home and in the company for hours, the first thing that could have been a mirage.
I saw his wife after a few years, and he confirmed that John was fine and that he had no more pain coming. I also said that since then, every year were at least 15 days' leave together and that what looked like a dream, but now has become reality.
***** I hope you rediscover your innocence *****
