ENERGY INTEGRATION
The Free Newsletter of Andrea Parimbelli to "improve its contacts with the world" - No 34
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Darling / or
talk about relationships in this newsletter is like entering a minefield: everywhere you turn you have to be careful not to run into something dangerous.
Some may say that this vision is a bit 'too pessimistic, and indeed it is, but unfortunately it is before our eyes as in today's life are difficult relationships.
This is not to say however that it is an unwieldy field, anything but, and like everything else ... if you know how you also have to modify the operation or improve it, but unless you know you content to go "automatic", which Like it or not and the consequences.
Relationships are one of the five fundamental aspects of life, which are:
1 - Being there (I exist)
2 - Enduring
3 - Defending
4 - Procreate
5 - Around the world, learn, communicate, socialize
These five aspects, which in fact are part of the five elements in nature (water , air, fire, earth, metal) are those that ensure the continuity of life on Earth and in living things. If one of these elements is in trouble, undermines the whole system and even our individual lives.
This says a lot about how relationships are important in life and, unless you do hermits, we are all involved. To bring in other reports Bikes and our emotions, how they represent a bit 'the spice of life.
relate to others it means setting in motion the sum of all our minds (conscious or unconscious) and our previous experience.
What does it mean? It means that our social life becomes the mirror of our inner life, no more and no less.
reports are nothing but the interaction between our behavior and the behavior of others, where one acts as a mirror to another. It may seem a bit 'cryptic phrase of the mirror. In fact, if you think about it, every signal that comes to us from the outside, it triggers in us an appropriate reaction on our part.
We can not react to the other except through one way that we know already, we have already experienced. And even if we are living a totally new experience, it is very likely that we will respond in a more or less similar to what we know already. Only if the new experience to be able to take us in the spring that opens us to another level of consciousness, we can experience life in a new way. In this case, we will add new pieces of our experience already gained.
's why I said a moment ago that the outer life is the mirror of our inner life. Only if we have gained within a balanced way to relate with all our inward parts, we have good relations even outside.
It 's a completely different way to pose in front of reality, especially in a context such as that of today's world, where all of our reaction is judged to be due to someone else, that is, blaming others for our reactions more or less inappropriate.
"If he / she does not do this, I'm not angry." How often we hear phrases like in a day? And why, at this point, we do not assume responsibility for our anger (or fear or sadness, etc..)? If
do not blame others and I have to question me free from possible guilt. Easy, right? But the trick did not last long, and above all continue to live those emotions without disturbing way out, until a balanced learning to relate with our emotions and all our parts.
In this context, the energy integration can make the process of balancing all those models that we drag in life and continue to bring suffering. The improvement of our relations can only go by our individual advancement. A hug
Andrea
aparim10@yahoo.it
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***** True stories
In this section, I will tell every newsletter that happened by chance really, which resolved completely by using energy integration. Here is the story of this issue: When I saw
Aldo for the first time I had the impression of a person beaten, those who received only blows out of life. Average height, a good physical condition and good health, at least apparently, were the right ingredients for a normal life if nothing else, and instead Aldo had some 'problems that haunted him.
begins with the story of his digestive problems, but never too serious persistent and continuous. All the tests performed and all the treatments tested were unable to give a plausible explanation as well as a decisive recovery. Everything was already saying that it was a somatization of a few problems not yet evident.
you progress through the interview, Aldo touched the subject of his relationships, saying that he was not married (she was about 40 years) and had occasional, short-term relationships with women who promptly left him. Because he was cut a bit 'short on this topic, I decided not to go any further in his conversation and start playing, certain that what had been a disturbance would then be revealed during the procedures.
from lying, I saw him tense or more restrained and even the little 'to breathe free initial served to change the situation, although he told me to feel good.
just started working on digestive disorders, certain that I would bring the natural source of those problems. After about half an hour, Aldo was more relaxed and tension in the stomach were gone. He himself said he did not feel so well for a very long time (it was due to the relaxation achieved in the abdomen, which had not for many years, having now assumed a permanent tension in the belly).
was already a great success, but aware that the improvements do not last much over time if not eradicate the roots of the problems, I continued to lavoraci to complete the situation. During the latter procedure had the image of a woman, one of his last companion. I asked for further explanation and Aldo told me that she had left him because he suffers from premature ejaculation and that he had been giving him impotent.
He was still very angry about that fact. I worked on that anger and at the end of the procedure, told me he was angry because he felt powerless and that anger was more to himself than to his former partner.
We had to work for a few sessions to be able to rebalance the situation. From that powerlessness emerged several aspects of which were the fundamental relations with his parents, frustrated that every time he did something new. Repetitive behaviors, Aldo had installed in the conviction of not having power to achieve what his heart, to be incompetent, and many other things related to the topic.
Aldo resurrected to new life after the small number of sessions. Freed from the roots of his problems, he began to explore his world in different ways, but above all, more congenial to his needs and after a few months began a new affective history that continues to this day (about four years have passed).
***** I wish to liberate all of "your" creativity *****
